The Five Stages Of Seller Grief
I posted this several months ago, but with current market conditions, I thought it appropriate to put it up again
Those of you familiar with the work of Elisabeth Kubler-Ross will recognize the parallels from her extensive research on grieving in the following post.
With great respect (and apologies) for Elisabeth Kubler-Ross, I have taken many liberties to correlate her research with the stages of grief many sellers experience in a declining market:
Kubler-Ross established Five Stages of Grief: (as experienced by sellers)
DENIAL
- This can’t be happening ~ the market can’t possibly being going soft when I want to sell.
- My home is the nicest home in my subdivision.
- I know my home is worth more than the identical home that just sold down the street.
- I am not going to give my home away.
- I do not have to sell.
- Geez ~ that first Realtor® I spoke with about listing my home sure was negative!
ANGER
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What’s wrong with all of those idiot Realtors®?
- What’s wrong with all of those stupid buyers who won’t look at my home?
- Why doesn’t my Realtor® get more people to look at my home?
- Why do prospective buyers walk in and out of my home in five minutes?
- Why have people pulled 400 flyers from the flyer box, yet no one looks at my home?
- Why doesn’t someone just make an offer?
- Why doesn’t my Realtor® hold an open house every day of the week?
- Why doesn’t my Realtor® run a full-page ad of my home with me standing in the driveway?
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I need to change Realtors® and find one who is more “positive”!
BARGAINING
- Please ~ just bring me an offer and I will negotiate!
- Perhaps I should listen to my Realtor® and reduce my price?
- I promise to be good if someone will just buy my home before it goes into foreclosure.
DEPRESSION
- No one is ever going to make an offer on my home.
- If I had listened to my first Realtor®, I could have sold my home for more than I will get now.
- Maybe I need to reduce my asking price for the 4th time.
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I may be stuck here forever.
ACCEPTANCE
- I am ready to swallow my pride and take a lower offer than the one I refused six months ago.
- Please Lord; just bring me an offer so I can get out of here?
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My first Realtor® was right ~ a good price is the best marketing tool there is!
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